If you decide that you HATE country music, then you limit yourself. You cut yourself off. There might be a set of life-changing lyrics in one song that may be tolerable to an individual.
If you decide that you are HEART-BROKEN, you will be limited. It may serve as an excuse for not bettering yourself, a distraction that hinders your progress, or a road-block to keep possibilities at bay.
If you decide that coupling a LABEL with anything will always leave you limited, then you are no longer free to believe that there may be an exception to this “rule,” this thought pattern. Like labeling my hands as tools to heal, while I am still capable of using them to hurt.
One thing may seem to be certain- fact, defined - meanwhile there is always an opposing side with their own facts. And there is always room for exception.